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Bullying is when one child picks on another child repeatedly. Usually children being bullied are either weaker or smaller, shy, and generally feel helpless. Bullying can be physical, verbal or social. It can happen at school, on the playground, on the school bus, in the neighborhood, or over the Internet.

When Your Child is Bullied:

- Help your child to learn how to respond by:

   1. Look the bully in the eye

   2. Stand tall and stay calm in a difficult situation

   3. WALK AWAY!

- Teach your child to say in a firm voice:

   1. "I don't like what you are doing."

   2. "Please do NOT talk to me like that."

   3. "Why would you say that?"

- Teach your child when and how to ask for help.

- Encourage your child to make friends with other children.

- Support activities that interest your child.

- Alert school officials to the problem and work with them on solutions.

- Make sure an adult who knows about the bullying can watch out for your child's safety and well-being when you cannot be there.

When Your Child is the Bully:

- Be sure your child knows that bullying is never OK.

- Set firm and consistent limits on your child's aggressive behavior.

- Be a positive role model. Show children they can get what they want without teasing, threatening, or hurting someone.

- Use effective, non-physical discipline, such as loss of privileges.

- Develop practical solutions with the school principle, teachers, counselors, and parents of the children your child has bullied.

When Your Child is a Bystander:

- Tell your child not to cheer on or even quietly watch bullying.

- Encourage your child to tell a trusted adult about the bullying.

- Help your child support other children who may be bullied. Encourage your child to include these children in activities.

- Encourage your child to join with others in telling bullies to stop.